Life is not measured by the breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Goal Accomplished
Thursday, December 18, 2008
The Car Don't Start Itself
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Christmas Shopping
Speaking of sitting, I found a sweater in my closet that needs to be sewn. It had a hole in the sleeve, on the stiching, that needed to be fixed. I decided to take a stab at it. Mind you I had to do it all by hand, because I do not own a sewing machine. I have never been so good with sewing. But I have to say I am proud of myself. I turned the sleeve inside out and went at it. it is fixed and works and you cant tell at all. I am actually wearing that sweater as I type this. I probably will not pick up sewing or go buy a machine, but I can sew a little hole and a button.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Tags Tags and more Tags
1. My kids-who knows where I would be without them
2. My husband-
3. My extended family
4. The atonement
5. The church
6. My friends
7. My Job
8. The time I get with my husband
9. My house
10. Little things
11. My trials-for making me stronger and giving me character and blessings
12. My ward split
13. That I have food to eat
14. Technology
15. Pictures of my memories
16. My car
17. My medical benefits
18. Music
19. Noel- who sits in sacrament meeting with me
20. The people willing to read this
Christmas Tags
1. Wrapping paper or gift bag? gift bag- all the way- save paper and save the earth!
2. When do you put the tree up? The day after Thanksgiving
3. When do you take the tree down?After New Years
4. Eggnog? I LOVE IT!
5. Favorite gift received as a child? My Red Scooter
6. Hardest person to buy for?? Myself
7. Easiest person to buy for? Cody
8. Do you have a nativity scene? yes
9. Mail or email Christmas cards? mail
10. Worst Christmas gift ever received? I honestly don't know
11. Favorite Christmas movie? Miracle on 34th Street - the new one
12. When do you start shopping for Christmas? whenever I have extra money
13. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? Uh- maybe?
14. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? divinity
15. Lights on the tree? Of course- we always use white lights.
16. Favorite Christmas song? Forgotten Carols & Oh Holy Night
17. Least favorite Christmas song? I don't know
18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Just travel to Parents houses
19. Can you name all of Santa’s reindeer? Of course- Dasher, Dancer and Prancer and Vixon, Comet, Cupid and Donner and Blitzen and Rudolph of course!
20. Angel on the tree top or a star? Tinker Bell
21. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? We have a Christmas party with my family on Christmas Eve and so the kids get a present there. The rest is in Christmas morning.
22. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? spending $$$
23. Favorite ornament theme or color? Disney
24. Favorite Christmas dinner? Ham and pumpkin pie
25. What do you want for Christmas this year? To feel the Spirit of Christ. I really don't care about presents for Christmas. I already received the best present for Christmas, Christ!
ANOTHER TAG!These are a few of my favorite things…..
Five favorite treats during the holidays:
1. Divinity
2. Sugar Cookies
3. Egg Nog
4. Truffles
5. Toffee
Five favorite Christmas movies:
1. Miracle on 34th Street ( the new one)
2. All the old Christmas cartoons on TV
3. Home Alone 1 and 2
4. Muppet Christmas Carol
5. Christmas Vacation
Five Traditions during the holidays:
1. Go to Layton Park on Christmas to see the lights
2. Christmas Eve party with my family Nativity
3. Going to the In-Laws for Christmas Day
4. Three present rule-to represent the wisemens gifts to Jesus
5. Sleep in
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Holiday Thorns
Thorns..... Thank You, Lord
Sandra felt as low as the heels of her shoes when she pulled open the florist shop door, against a November gust of wind.
Her life had been as sweet as a spring breeze and then, in the fourth month of her second pregnancy, a “minor” automobile accident stole her joy.
This was Thanksgiving week and the time she should have delivered their infant son. She grieved over their loss. Troubles had multiplied. Her husband’s company “threatened” to transfer his job to a new location. Her sister had called to say that she could not come for her long awaited holiday visit. What’s worse, Sandra’s friend suggested that Sandra’s grief was a God-given path to maturity that would allow her to empathize with others who suffer. “She has no idea what I’m feeling,” thought Sandra with a shudder.
“Thanksgiving? Thankful for what?” she wondered. “For a careless driver whose truck was hardly scratched when he rear-ended her? For an airbag that saved her life, but took her child’s?”
“Good afternoon, can I help you?” Sandra was startled by the approach of the shop clerk.
“I.....I need an arrangement,” stammered Sandra.
“For Thanksgiving? I’m convinced that flowers tell stories,” she continued. “Are you looking for something that conveys ‘gratitude’ this Thanksgiving?”
“Not exactly!” Sandra blurted out. “In the last five months, everything that could go wrong has gone wrong.” Sandra regretted her outburst, and was surprised when the clerk said, “I have the perfect arrangement for you.”
Then the bell on the door rang, and the clerk greeted the new customer, “Hi, Barbara, let me get your order.” She excused herself and walked back to a small workroom, then quickly reappeared, carrying an arrangement of greenery, bows, and what appeared to be long-stemmed thorny roses- except the ends of the rose stems were neatly snipped: there were no flowers.
“Do you want these in a box?” asked the clerk. Sandra watched, was this a joke? Who would want rose stems with no flowers! She waited for laughter, but neither woman laughed. “Yes, please,” Barbara replied with an appreciative smile. “You’d think after three years of getting the special, I wouldn’t be so moved by its significance, but I can feel it right here, all over again,” she said, as she gently tapped her chest.
Sandra stammered, “Ah, that lady just left with, uh.. .She left with No flowers!”
“That’s right, said the clerk.” I cut off the flowers. That’s the ‘Special.’ I call it the Thanksgiving Thorns Bouquet. Barbara came into the shop three years ago, feeling much as you do today,” explained the clerk. “She thought she had very little to be thankful for. She had just lost her father to cancer; the family business was failing; her son had gotten into drugs; and she was facing major surgery.”
“That same year I had lost my husband,” continued the clerk. “For the first time in my life, I had to spend the holidays alone. I had no children, no husband, no family nearby, and too much debt to allow any travel.”
“So what did you do?” asked Sandra.
“I learned to be thankful for thorns,” answered the clerk quietly. “I’ve always thanked God for the good things in my life and I never questioned Him why those good things happened to me, but when the bad stuff hit, I cried out, “Why? Why me?!” It took time for me to learn that the dark times are important to our faith! I have always enjoyed the ‘flowers’ of my life, but it took the thorns to show me the beauty of God’s comfort! You know, the Bible says that God comforts us when we’re afflicted, and from His consolation we learn to comfort others.”
Sandra sucked in her breath, as she thought about what her friend had tried to tell her. “I guess the truth is I don’t want comfort. I’ve lost a baby and I’m angry with God.”
Just then someone else walked in the shop.
“Hey, Phil!” the clerk greeted the balding, rotund man. “My wife sent me in to get our usual Thanksgiving arrangement...twelve thorny, long-stemmed—stems!” laughed Phil as the clerk handed him a tissue wrapped arrangement from the refrigerator.
“Those are for your wife?” asked Sandra incredulously. “Do you mind telling me why she wants a bouquet that looks like that?”
“Four years ago, my wife and I nearly divorced,” Phil replied. “After 40 years, we were in a real mess, but with the Lord’s grace and guidance, we trudged through problem after problem. The Lord rescued our marriage. Jenny here (the clerk) told me she kept a vase of rose stems to remind her of what she had learned from “thorny” times. That was good enough for me. I took home some of those stems. My wife and I decided to label each one for a specific “problem” and give thanks for what that problem taught us.”
As Phil paid the clerk, he said to Sandra, “I highly recommend the Special!”
“I don’t know if I can be thankful for the thorns in my life.” Sandra said to the clerk. “It’s all too...fresh.”
“Well,” the clerk replied carefully, “my experience has shown me that the thorns make the roses more precious. We treasure God’s providential care more during trouble than at any other time. Remember that it was a crown of thorns that Jesus wore so we might know His love. Don’t resent the thorns.”
Tears rolled down Sandra’s cheeks. For the first time since the accident, she loosened her grip on her resentment. “I’ll take those twelve long-stemmed thorns, please,” she managed to choke out.
“I hoped you would,” said the clerk gently. “I’ll have them ready in a minute.”
“Thank you. What do I owe you?”
“Nothing. Nothing but a promise to allow God to heal your heart. The first year’s arrangement is always on me.” The clerk smiled and handed a card to Sandra. “I’ll attach this card to your arrangement, but maybe you would like to read it first.”
It read: “My God, I have never thanked you for my thorns. I have thanked you a thousand times for my roses, but never once for my thorns. Teach me the glory of the cross I bear; teach me the value of my thorns. Show me that I have climbed closer to you along the path of pain. Show me that, through my tears, the colors of your rainbow look much more brilliant.”
Praise Him for the roses; thank Him for the thorns. God Bless all of you. Be thankful for all that the Lord does for you. “Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly, and leave the rest to God.”
Friday, November 28, 2008
Thanksgiving & Preparing for Holy Days
We put the tree up today and all of the decorations. I love Christmas! I love cleaning the house as we put up the decorations! I love the smell of Christmas. I love how everyone is so nice to each other during this season. Don't be politically correct, say Merry Christmas instead of Happy Holidays, let everyone know you love CHRISTmas!
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Caroline's Spine & Twilight
The next morning, saturday morning, Cody went to film some paintball shots with his team. I got to have a break by myself and then I went to lunch and "Twilight" with JoDee and Nancy. It was nice to get out with the girls. I thought the movie was good, I dont know that they could have done a better job because it would have been 8 hours long. It seemed a little choppy from the book, but that is because it would have been too long. I think Bella needed to be prettier, but what can I say. So my weekend was the best it has been for a long long time.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Celine Dion
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Ding Ding Ding and There is a Light
Monday, November 10, 2008
Tagged by Keri
1. Five names that you go by: Liesl, Sees, Lies (not pronounced lies but Leece), Hunny, Momma
2. Three things you are wearing right now: Tan slacks, white socks and a stripped shirt
3. Two things you want very badly at the moment: To go to bed and to be out of debt
4. 2 People who will probably fill this out: ?
5. Two things you did last night: Did laundry and packed paintball gear to be shipped (EBay)
6. Two things you ate today: Chicken nuggets and spaghetti
7. Two people you last talked to on the phone: Smith's pharmacy and Cody
8. Two things you are going to do tomorrow: work and scrap book
9. Two longest car rides: Driving to and from California with Azrael in my car, I wanted to do things to that child I will not mention here.
10. Two of your favorite beverages: Dr Pepper and Water
I am tagging Beep and Mandy, good luck!
Sunday, November 9, 2008
My New Goal
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Memories In the Corner of My Mind
1. As a comment on my blog, leave one memory that you and I had together. It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!
2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty cool (and funny) to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you.
I thought I would post a picture of the one of my millions of memories. This was our first Christmas with Tabatha. I spent a fortune on her dress (Baby Gap). I felt really fat in this picture and Cody's face looks really slim. It was 2 months after Tabatha was born when this picture was taken. I am thankful for our first little helper girl. She is a big help to our family! She was a very darling baby as well! How time flies, since I don't look like I am 12 any longer, like I do in this pic.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Halloween Fun
I am at work on this lovely, rainy, Sunday morning and thought I would post and then when I get home I will add the pictures. Our family loves Halloween! We have a lot of fun decorations, some which scare the kids. We have this coffin that we put on our door step that has a sensor in it. So when someone walks up to the door it starts making a thundering noise, a man pops up and screams and then goes back in the coffin. Its hard to explain. Tabatha is afraid of it and she asks if she can go out the garage, to go to school, so she doesnt have to walk by it. Tabatha didnt have school on Halloween, so they had their party on Thursday. Also they cannot wear costumes to school, so that was kinda lame, but she had fun anyways. Saturday the 25th my family had their annual Halloween party.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Tagged by Hillary
I am: a mom, wife, homebody, cleanfreak, DISNEY FREAK and blunt.
I want: To get out of debt and stay out
I have: So much you cant list here
I dislike: Fighting with my husband
I fear: The passing of my children or husband
I feel: Stress
I hear: People talking all day at work
I smell: Katie's candles
I crave: Ice Cream
I cry: When I dont know what to do
I usually: Have a boring life
I wonder: What people really are thinking of me
I regret: Well, there is some major things in my life that I regret, but then I also learned from them, so it is a catch 22
I love: My family and Not having to worry.
I care: After it is too late
I always: Am tired and busy
I worry: About everything, sometimes I think I am literally crazy
I am not: A perfect wife
I remember: When Tabatha was born, when I got engaged, the old times (when I was pretty) and when I had money to spend on anything I wanted.
I believe: In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
I dance: All over the house, especially after I watch so you think you can dance.
I sing: ALL THE TIME.
I argue: When I know I am right.
I write: Only on my Blog and in Birthday cards
I win: When I know I can
I lose: To this ugly world
I wish: I didnt have to worry about money
I listen: To my best friend when she needs an ear, to music in the car and to the spirit
I forget: Everything, I have to right down things
I am happy: When no one is mad at me and when I can just sit down eat a bowl if ice cream and watch my favorite show.
I know this is lame but I am tagging Julie.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Back to the Basics
So I am finally posting the rest of our vacation because if I am bored with these posts ya'll are as well. I think I am just depressed that I cannot actually live at Disneyland. We finished up our vacation by going back to Newport Coast. We stayed from October 8-11. Disney was a lot more crowded this time around. There was a California/Arizona holiday. In fact one night we were going to eat at the coke cafe and watch the parade. I was standing in line to get food and Cody had gone to take Tabatha to the restroom. He got back and I was still in line, its a good thing, because Tabatha had an accident and we needed to leave. We tried to leave but a short walk down main street and we were stuck. No one could move. The little guys with the light wands, weren't helping, we stayed that way until the parade was over. I was pretty sure I had lost it and Cody wanted to just leave and go home, that is when you know he has lost it. We really didn't leave and go home. We slept and went back for some more the next day. This will be the last trip we take for awhile. We really had a good time. We left to come home on the 11th of October and when we hit Beaver we got a nice blizzard to drive in. Who doesn't love leaving 80-90 degrees and coming home to freezing. Gotta love






